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By admin on November 21, 2011
How can I either turn asexual or learn to accept the fact that I’m a loser, and will be alone for the rest of my life?
I’m not asking for any advice on how to get a girlfriend. I’ve come to the realization that no woman other than my grandma is ever going to love me. I just want to know how I can be okay with being alone?
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Is being alone because you consider yourself a ‘loser’ better than being alone because your hot and no one wants you for anything else but sex? They don’t care what your like, they just want to get off on you and move on.
huh?
Ok… now I’m going to tell you straight up… stop it with the pity party. You must enjoy being miserable. Happy people can’t stand being around miserable people… and vise versa. Focus on the good stuff and be thankful for every little thing… and you will change your attitude…. promise.
Be clean, dress nice, get over yourself…. you can either be pitiful or powerful but you can’t be both. Start your spiritual journey already. Open your bible… God wants to talk to you.
if your still young- Dont sweat it too much. I was a loser all my highschool days. I thought i was going to be alone, and that girls didnt want me. Well i got better looking and did my best to lose my excess weight from many days of video games and nothing else. I ended up having my first girl friend(who was not ugly in the least). When i was 15, and had sex for the first time at 16. My point is that you might blossom if your still young.
if you are over 30- At this point your best bet is myspace. You can find a girl guranteed. You just have to try and risk some rejection.
P.S. im 23 now
it’s not okay to be alone, your life would be very miserable. try to change your mindset because if you say that you are a loser, then you are really a loser and can’t accomplish much. if you think that you’re ugly, then be more positive and approach the right people with kindness and they might like you. if it is because of your personality, you can change to become a better person.
there was this story of a man in his 50′s living alone, he ended up killing people and himself.
lol you don’t have to be a loser and alone for your whole life.
there are just 3 thing you and any man needs to become a real man, who can pull any girl and live like a winner.
1. intelligence= This is the defining attribute to any human with out it there is nothing separating you from every animal and stupid person on the planet.
2.Honor= with out any honor you have no morality with out morality you are just a shell of a person. use your intelligence to pick and choice what is really moral and what is not and set your life to those rules you put in place for your self and never change them for any but your self.
3. charisma= this is one of the most important aspects for a man to have. With out it you are just a nerdy geeky loser. change your speech according to what sounds good there is nothing wrong with emulating a form of speech from a actor or a singer you see on t.v. make all your actions smooth and things will fall into place.
do these:
1. before u sleep every night, repeat continuously till you pass out, “im a loser im a loser im a loser”
2. constantly eat junk food, eat 20 meals a day, 500 calories each
3. dont exercise
4. dont try to earn more money
5. dont travel the world
6. dont talk to people AT ALL
7. dont read anything intelligent or meaningful
8. dont get out of the house
9. dont have any social activities like pubs, kayaking, dancing, libraries
10. constantly drink alot and take alot of drugs
11. when the time is right kill yourself.
there might be more BUT CONVERSELY, YOU COULD TRY DOING THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF WHAT I WROTE. WAKE UP
being alone is not necessarily bad
If you realize that you are having a hard time dealing with the other sex then you can realize that you will live alone. The trick is to talk PLEASANTLY with everyone, including those of the same sex who think you are weird. Once they see you are not, they will seek you out. Talk PLEASANTLY, with the opposite sex. Once they see you are NOT a threat, they will also seek you out. You will not be alone, but you will be able to cope with Loneliness. You must also increase your level of esteem. Nobody is a Loser unless they choose to be one. So another way to conquer Loneliness is to increase your own estimation of your values, increase your self esteem. Asexuality is a concept, not something people are born into. When you look at it, gay people will find other gays with similar interest. Heterosexuals do the same only with the opposite sex. Again, you are not a Loser, you are just limiting your interests. Broaden your horizons by talking to anybody that wants to talk and you will do okay,
Such a weak and pathetic question from such a tough looking avatar…you’re giving the Sith a bad rep. Big, strong Darth is afraid of taking a chance and maybe risking a little failure and possible rejection? Maybe grandma can introduce you to some sweet older ladies.
You are what you choose to be, you are what you want to be, you are what you make yourself. It’s that simple.